Comments on: Stop With The Resolutions, Start With The Crack /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/ You don't know a language, you live it. You don't learn a language, you get used to it. Sat, 04 Jul 2020 16:09:19 +0900 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.1.13 By: Start Dirty: Why A Clean Slate Is Bad For You and What To Do About It | AJATT | All Japanese All The Time /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-1000054143 Tue, 16 Jul 2013 00:07:06 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-1000054143 […] And, this sounds like good idea, right? Any action’s better than no action, right? Sure. But it isn’t a good idea, and here’s the basic reason why: the whole “start over from 0″ is the same pathology and has the same side-effects as that whole “New Year’s Resolution” nonsense. […]

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By: Practical Tips on What To Do Instead of New Year’s Resolutions | AJATT | All Japanese All The Time /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-315466 Tue, 05 Feb 2013 02:42:09 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-315466 […] OK, so, we’ve let down our pants and gone and taken a collective #2 on a New Year’s trad…. So what now? […]

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By: An App That’s Marketing Good Habits « The Blog of Alex Arrick /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-309857 Wed, 23 Jan 2013 18:19:43 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-309857 […] a terrible sense of defeat by around… now. Long-term goals are hard to accomplish, and are often far too unreasonable to be accomplished by the average human being who has moderate-to-low […]

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By: [Learning Languages] Reflections on learning Japanese methods | Life is a journey /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-303607 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 15:28:54 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-303607 […] and they pretty much sums up what I have been trying to say in this entry, AJATT’s “Stop With The Resolutions, Start With the Crack“, and Juan Riveria’s two blog entries, “Never Get Caught Without CRACK in Your […]

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By: Hybridize Your CRACK! Samurai Mind Reading | Samurai Mind Online /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-303516 Mon, 14 Jan 2013 12:12:35 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-303516 […] say you’ve done something silly like make New Year’s resolutions.   You want to learn Japanese and you want to learn Japanese.   Get your little hands on a fun […]

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By: Krazy K /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-299772 Wed, 09 Jan 2013 04:51:07 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-299772 I can totally hook you up with a guy who’s been living in a cabin in Yosemite for a long time. He doesn’t know it’s not the 70’s, so the crack is surely still there. He likes people and is a nice guy. He helped us get into my car after hiking for a week and realizing on the last day that we’d left the car keys at the starting point. Just ask for Jake at the gate.

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By: Lane /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-297997 Mon, 07 Jan 2013 02:45:14 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-297997 This quote

“In setting goals, you can be happy if the goal is doable — something, that is within your power to accomplish in a relatively short period of time.”

makes something khatzu has been saying begin to resonate. The aforementioned grandiosity of typical New Year resolutions fails to provide any detail about how the resolution is meant to be accomplished. Mixing that with khatzu’s \’small goals\’ mantra gives you something like “Get fit this year.” => “Stand outside wearing trainers.”

I think the idea of small goals makes two important points. It reduces the level of grandiosity to that makes the task feel less onerous and it provides a level of detail that is sufficient to get the shaping up started. Both of these qualities seem to me to make the goal feel more tangible if only at a subconscious level.

This is also where the desirability of the process is important. The act of achieving a small goal leaves you in position to begin the fun activity that will inevitably result in the desired goal. The \’activation energy\’ of achieving the goal is thus reduced and, depending on the intensity of the desire to engage in the process, may even be negative. I think this is the point of “Starting with the crack”.

So instead of resolving to do something, maybe we should consider where we’d like to be and let our environments take us there (of course implying that you’ve suitably prepared your environment). It seems more and more like this blog is a guide to responsible stewardship of our subconsciouses. We know what we like. We know what buttons to push. We just have to design our environments such that our buttons push themselves!

Good on you, khatzu. I just had my little epiphany.

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By: Ian Price /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-297856 Sun, 06 Jan 2013 23:02:06 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-297856 Actually, this year is the first year in ages that I actually have made a “new years” resolution (see website field), but I did make sure to make it small and winnable, and frankly, the only reason it is a new years resolution, is because I held out for a few weeks so I could call it one :P. Setting out for a whole year was admittedly a bit presumptuous though; I’ll just have to prove myself right.

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By: Juan Rivera /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-297435 Sun, 06 Jan 2013 10:52:26 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-297435 新年あけましておめでとうございます。。。I hope every one gets on the cracks for the new year. Thank you for the mention and for all the mad scientist stuff you cook up.

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By: Livonor /stop-with-the-resolutions-start-with-the-crack/#comment-297383 Sun, 06 Jan 2013 08:43:05 +0000 /?p=8317#comment-297383 DORGAS

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