Comments on: You can have do or be ANYthing, but you can’t have do or be EVERYthing /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/ You don't know a language, you live it. You don't learn a language, you get used to it. Sat, 04 Jul 2020 16:09:19 +0900 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=5.1.13 By: Spiritdancer /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-1000572025 Sat, 01 Feb 2020 22:52:50 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-1000572025 You are wise and hilarious and a good writer! You should write a book. Have you? Not just about Japanese but about how to get what you want in life. There is a lot of good stuff here! But you need to update the look of your blog.

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By: Leon Macfayden /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-1000570678 Fri, 20 Dec 2019 18:28:17 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-1000570678 Yeah, for me its time to get a divorce, quit my job and disown my family. Or you could be realistic and not take AJATT so literally because for many people it is LITERALLY impossible to function without English. So for me, I will be doing my usual 8 or 9 hours immersion and keep my family. Although this was posted a long time ago and you are probably done with Japanese by now.

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By: Why America Doesn’t Win Wars Any More and What (Ironically) That Can Teach You About Learning Languages | AJATT | All Japanese All The Time /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-1000567909 Sun, 18 Aug 2019 12:37:53 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-1000567909 […] fact that you can’t do everything sets you free to ignore most things and simply not bother in the first place. Thus, a lack of […]

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By: Remember You Are, Were and Will Always Be Human: Infinite in Possibility and Finite in Action | AJATT | All Japanese All The Time /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-1000565715 Tue, 05 Mar 2019 21:38:13 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-1000565715 […] You can be, do, have and learn it all. But you can only be, do have and learn one thing right now. […]

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By: Ron /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-1000516233 Fri, 06 Feb 2015 21:44:34 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-1000516233 I am currently passionate about getting to grips with the French language and take the spirit of your principles and am motivated to drop all else in my life for a short while and go for it 100% or as close as possible. That does mean making some tough choices because it is so unbalanced but maybe if I can set a time period then just perhaps . . . . . . Cheers.

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By: Jon /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-1000064180 Thu, 02 Jan 2014 05:01:15 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-1000064180 Good perspective.

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By: cél /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-1000004286 Fri, 29 Mar 2013 22:18:34 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-1000004286 It’s SO difficult to make a choice and “mourn over” ALL the others one woudl like to master.

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By: Vince /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-252837 Fri, 28 Sep 2012 22:09:06 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-252837 That is a great image.

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By: Kimchi /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-232603 Tue, 31 Jul 2012 04:16:31 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-232603 with ditzy girls with names like “Kimberley”. . .gee thanks. *insulted*
Anyways. . .
I’m sad, sad because I knew all along that I have to sacrifice tihngs I love beyond my own understanding to get to the place I’m gonna get to. You just made it even more obvious, and real.
But acknowledgement is the first step. The rest comes afterwards.
(sudden urge to eat water chestnuts)
The people that are closest to me are on opposite ends of the scale on this.
On one hand, a person who knows equal exchange and therefore sacrifices a lot of time with family to be with friends and a lot of time with those friends to play videogames (true passion)
On the other a person who wants to do everything right and true and preferably all at once too.(imagine how much that person gets done in a day. . .not much)
So i know the joy of doing what you want to, and the sadness of the people you give up to do that.
You can’t jump to one trapeze without letting go of the other but damn if most of us don’t try to anyways.
Ah, all the things I’m gonna miss. . .

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By: Language Is Peeing: The Approximately Top Ten Reasons Why Language Acquisition = Micturition | AJATT | All Japanese All The Time /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-204604 Mon, 30 Apr 2012 09:27:06 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-204604 […] What, you think the language can understand your future promises (“oh, he’s going to pay me later; he said the cheque’s in the mail, so let’s give him an advance on the […]

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By: NinKenDo /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-192514 Wed, 07 Mar 2012 14:43:18 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-192514 I’m afraid I am NOT willing to do all that, not quite.
 
To me, the prospect of success afforded when I maintain my current life while also leading a “Japanese life” is good enough.
 
Maybe I won’t learn Japanese to the level you did in 18 months, hell I may never get to your level, but I know Japanese can be learnt without such drastic measures and I’m happy to pay the time penalty and the extra difficulty if it means maintaining a good protion of my current life.
 
Still, really enjoyed this article. It really put some things in to perspective for me.

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By: Miss Language Learning /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-150116 Wed, 26 Oct 2011 22:16:12 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-150116 Wow you’re full of crap. Good luck.

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By: Kimura /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-147402 Thu, 20 Oct 2011 21:32:59 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-147402 I tried doing that with Minecraft, but the language mod hasn’t been updated to 1.8… (Normally, changing languages is as easy as replacing en_US.lang and deleting META-INF, but since it’s a different character set, actual code modding is required.) Guess I have to be content with 日本語でマインクラフトのLPs…

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By: Their Freedom To Hate → Your Freedom To Become Great | AJATT | All Japanese All The Time /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-140723 Mon, 03 Oct 2011 23:46:37 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-140723 […] what you love and not be hated? Now you’re just being greedy!” NAKATANI Akihiro “You can have anything in life if you will sacrifice everything else for it.” James M. […]

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By: Social Resistance | AJATT | All Japanese All The Time /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-136232 Tue, 20 Sep 2011 06:00:49 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-136232 […] is all this drama an issue; usually, it doesn’t even come up. But sometimes you do have to choose between something you really want and like, and just being liked. Fortunately, when you choose the former, you do tend to get new likers. Either completely new […]

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By: Santiago /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-115392 Mon, 11 Jul 2011 02:13:34 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-115392 Why not get a mod and play songs in Japanese? 😀

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By: AJATT Plus » 優先順位万能主義 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-47774 Wed, 07 Jul 2010 15:01:17 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-47774 […] ★You can have do or be ANYthing, but you can’t have do or be EVERYthing ★LARDに就いて Join the forum discussion on this post […]

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By: AD /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-28607 Wed, 25 Nov 2009 06:36:01 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-28607 I don’t know if you’ll read this Tal, but it is pretty obvious that the reason he is so demanding is because he knows that we are all adults, and all have English in our lives somewhere. He even stated this.

However, if he suddenly said, ‘f it, just try and put the Japanese wherever it seems good, preferably after dinner and before late night with talk show host’ then the whole meaning would be lost.

/もうちょっと頑張って下さいね!

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By: Tal /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-27855 Thu, 12 Nov 2009 21:30:20 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-27855 Hm. This article *almost* made me completely abandon learning Japanese.

You are telling me I have to not see my friends, not participate in society, not make NEW friends except for with people who speak Japanese…

Screw.

That.

Noise.

This reads like some sort of “Sinners in the Hands of an Angry Language God”. Don’t watch that movie on the weekend w/ your friends, YOU’LL FAIL!
Don’t chat with people in English… YOU’LL FAIL!

That entire post was about as demotivational as possible. Also, a ton of hogwash, as you yourself said that you had “a life, a job”, etc etc etc.

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By: AD /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything/#comment-27648 Tue, 10 Nov 2009 08:19:57 +0000 /you-can-have-do-or-be-anything-but-you-cannot-have-do-or-be-everything#comment-27648 It’s called opportunity cost.

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