Mental Tools

Continual Questioning

In a lot of personal development literature, they say that asking good questions helps us get good answers. Here are some you can ask yourself continually: Belief What if I were Japanese? What if I had been born and raised in Japan? What if I were Jared in The Pretender and I had to fool people into…

Identity and Self-Fulfilling Prophecy

“I am the greatest, I said that even before I knew I was.” ~ Muhammad Ali “It’s not who you are that holds you back: it’s who you think you’re not.” ~ Anonymous “What we can or cannot do, what we consider possible or impossible, is rarely a function of our true capability. It is…

Buttocks and Binary Fission

Tired? Busy? Overwhelmed? Can’t do 100%? Then do 50%. There’s nothing wrong with a half-a**ed job. Do half an a** now, half-an a** later, and pretty soon you have a nice, round a**. J-Lo would be proud. What’s that? You can’t do 50%? Then do 50% of that. Still too much? Cut in half again.…

Nucular Weapons

The essence of learning Japanese is in the almost meaninglessly small things you do. When you find something so small, so apparently meaningless that you think “that couldn’t possibly help”, but it’s something that puts you in more contact with Japanese, then that, my friend, is your sweet spot. Because you have found something that…