Mental Tools

Stop Being Creative

Passive listening doesn’t help, you say? Well, how are you supposed to play a song you’ve never heard? How are you supposed to do a Lady Gaga impression when you’ve never even heard her speak or sing? I’ll tell you how…you make it up. You get creative. You invent something new. And therein lies the…

Patience

This entry is part 1 of 2 in the series Patience

This entry is part 1 of 2 in the series PatiencePatience is not passive waiting. Patience is not static. Patience isn’t sitting down and shutting up — that’s being cooperative and docile to help driving parents. Patience is dynamic. Patience is active preparation. Patience is doing. If you’re not too preoccupied and too physically tired…

Don’t Ask Me For Advice…

…as if I have all the right answers from the back of the Book of Life and Japanese. Most people don’t mess up by doing the wrong thing. They mess up by doing nothing. Sure, going to Japanese class seemed like the obvious answer. And you tried that. And it didn’t work. And now here…

Stop Trying Hard. Try Easy.

This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Hard and Easy

This entry is part 3 of 3 in the series Hard and EasyThere’s a difference between: (A) Things that are good for you, and (B) Things that are good for you and that you’ll actually do. Most so-called New Year’s resolutions are type (A). They sound heroic. They sound “disciplined”. They work. It’s just that…